The Wall Behind
If you’ve ever met with me on Zoom, you’ve probably noticed the wall behind me. Maybe you’ve commented on it—the deep blue couch, the arrangement of Lego flowers. Over time, it’s become something of a signature in my meetings. I didn’t expect that. But, like many things in life, it’s a story that unfolded piece by piece.
When I moved into this office in December, I spent a lot of time wondering what to put on that wall. I knew it would be visible in every meeting, every session, every conversation. I wanted it to feel personal, but not too personal—something that reflected me without being a distraction. For a while, the wall remained empty, waiting for inspiration.
That inspiration had already been growing at home. About two years ago, after surgery on my hands, I started building Lego flower sets as part of my rehabilitation. At first, it was just a way to regain strength and dexterity, but I quickly discovered that it was more than that. The process was meditative, calming—both structured and creative at the same time. There was something deeply satisfying about following a pattern, watching something take shape piece by piece. Before I knew it, building Lego sets had become a regular part of my self-care.
So when I moved into my new office, bringing the Lego flowers with me just made sense. Now, they cover the wall behind me. They are a quiet but meaningful reflection of how I move through the world—balancing structure and creativity, working through challenges with patience, and finding beauty in small, intentional steps. But they also tell another story: the story of how we build and rebuild, of how healing is often an unexpected journey, and of how something as simple as a Lego set can become a tool for growth.
Of course, a part of me still gets a little anxious when Lego releases a new batch of sets—there are so many possibilities! But that’s the beauty of it, isn’t it? We’re always building something, whether we realize it or not.
What’s on the wall behind you? What do the things in your background—physical or metaphorical—say about you? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
A Side note:
I just wanted to take a moment to say how grateful I am to walk alongside you on your journey. It’s been an honor to support you, and we truly hope you’ve felt seen, heard, and encouraged along the way. If our time together has made a difference for you, would you mind sharing a google review about your experience? Your review could help someone else who’s searching for the right support take that first, brave step. Here is the link.
